"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." — Proverbs 15:1Anger is a universal emotion, a natural response when we feel threatened. But for our children (and often for us as ...  Read More

The ultimate goal of spiritual parenting is raising children who genuinely trust God, remember His works, and follow His ways. This transformation isn't accomplished primarily through rules or routine...  Read More

Perhaps the greatest test of parental love comes when a child rejects the values we hold dear. In these painful seasons, remember that love isn't meant to be a commodity we withhold from those who dis...  Read More

Trust is built on consistency between our words and actions. When we make promises to our children that we don't intend to keep—whether threats in moments of anger or commitments we later forget—we un...  Read More

God's instruction for spiritual parenting includes regular, natural conversations about faith. Notice the word used isn't about formal teaching or sermons—it's simply "talk." Faith discussions should ...  Read More

Our families are shaped by what we value most. Research consistently shows that spiritually-grounded families tend to be healthier across cultures and generations. This isn't merely coincidence—it's b...  Read More

Understanding the difference between discipline and punishment transforms our approach to parenting. Punishment focuses on the past, seeking to make someone pay for wrongdoing. Discipline looks to the...  Read More

One of the hardest aspects of parenting is allowing natural consequences to teach our children. When a child refuses to eat dinner and later complains of hunger, our impulse is to lecture or provide a...  Read More

One of the most effective ways to help children grow in responsibility is to give them choices rather than constant commands. When we only issue orders, we create either rebellion or unhealthy complia...  Read More

As parents, we often struggle with the tension between rescuing our children from pain and allowing them to experience the natural consequences of their choices. When we constantly shield them from di...  Read More

God's design for parenting follows a beautiful pattern of growth. When children are young, they need firm boundaries with limited choices. As they demonstrate responsibility, we gradually expand their...  Read More

God the Father is the archetype of good parenting. At Jesus' baptism and transfiguration, He spoke words over His Son that every child longs to hear from their parents: words of love, delight, pride, ...  Read More